Attraction
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Formula
HMV: 5.0 / 10
Evaluating a Man
Evaluating a Woman
Compatibility Match
Context / Intent
Short-term
Long-term
Balanced
Physical
Base looks
Symmetry, facial structure, fitness
5
Grooming & style
Controllable presentation
5
Height & posture
Physical presence
5
Resources & Status
Income
Raw financial capacity
5
Career status
Prestige & trajectory
5
Social proof
Network, reputation
5
Personality & Character
Confidence
Non-neediness, decisiveness
5
Humour & wit
Emotional spike ability
5
Emotional security
Stability, no drama
5
Ambition
Drive & direction
5
Context / Intent
Short-term
Long-term
Balanced
Physical
Base looks
Symmetry, fitness, features
5
Presentation
Style, grooming, effort
5
Warmth & Personality
Warmth & kindness
Emotional safety signal
5
Playfulness
Fun to be around
5
Emotional stability
No volatility or drama
5
Independence
Self-sufficient, not needy
5
Intellect & Substance
Intelligence
Curiosity, depth of thought
5
Shared values
Alignment on life goals
5
Baseline Attraction
Mutual physical attraction
Prerequisite gate (below 4 = penalty)
5
Compatibility Dimensions
Values alignment
Life goals, ethics, worldview
5
Communication
Conflict resolution style
5
Lifestyle fit
Schedules, social habits
5
Sexual compatibility
Drives, openness, frequency
5
Emotional reciprocity
Equal investment & effort
5
Growth trajectory
Heading in same direction
5
Penalty Factors
Avoidant attachment
0 = secure · 10 = highly avoidant
0
Red flag density
0 = none · 10 = many
0
A reductive model is still a model — human attraction defies full quantification. Use as a thinking tool, not a verdict.